Lifting In Arms Factor:
Well, lifting wife in arms by her beloved husband and then taking her in one place to another in home, public place, hotel etc is quite entertaining and making people happy too much. Housewives feel happy when they see in serials husband lifts his spouse just in case she walks bare feet to a temple to fulfill her wish (for husband's prosperity and good health) to a mythical God and hurts her foot.
Women keep expecting the same thing from their husbands and imagine that may be 1 day their husbands would lift them within their arms and bring them from a dining room to bedroom or from vegetable market to home just walking and individuals are wondering and wondering and saying inside "How come? Is this a miracle? Oh, she is unquestionably very lucky." But the truth is many husbands in India seem quite reluctant to lift their wives for any reason especially after marriage. Exceptions may be there in some rare cases. When husbands (before marriage) were lovers they have to have lifted their lovers but after they are in a responsibility role they get tired, bored and in some manner don't feel happy to do such things for well-known reasons. Women complain too for their husbands when they watch serial actors (characters) lifting actresses within their arms. Please have a detailed go through the following conversation between a man and wife (both middle aged) while watching lifting in arms scene in TV serial:-
The husband is busy taking care of his laptop and simultaneously watching TV serial with his wife to produce her happy. He's least interested in television serials but sometimes he agrees to fulfill his wife's wish. It's 8pm. Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai Watch Online Husband is sitting beside his wife just to be controlled by her just in case she passes any comment about any character's behavior etc. The wife moved totally into her favorite serial. A couple of minutes later, all of an immediate, she starts clapping her hands; the husband is startled, he discusses her with wonder and then moves his eyes to the television screen. He asks his wife with a little curiosity "What happened dear?" The wife is busy in watching the scene. She doesn't hear him. He asks her again "I never saw you so happy. You clapped your hands. I can see that there isn't any cricket match going on at this time. Could you please tell me what made you clapped suddenly?" Now the wife discusses her husband with some anger inside and says "You won't believe me if I tell you." She mutes the channel whilst the commercial break comes and keeps the remote in her hand. Husband "Obviously, I will believe you."
Wife "Didn't you watch the way Geeta's husband lifted her in his arms and took her to the temple? Actually she hurt her foot. And now it's bleeding. So he lifted. So sweet!!! So romantic!!! But what I'm honey; she shouldn't have gone bare feet to the temple. What do you think?"
The husband listens to his wife attentively and then asks a question casually "Who is Geeta, dear?"
"Oh, I'm discussing this character. You know she is my favorite. You seem to almost forget all the best actors."
"Oh, just how can I forget that? Only this Geeta I didn't know."
"I wish my husband takes me to the temple just like that. She is really lucky to own that strong man. I'm feeling so happy you know. Have you ever taken me like this even once? See simply how much her husband loves her. That's how you can express love. You have never expressed your love like Gaeta's husband. You know, he says I enjoy you to her nearly every day. And just look at yourself."
"Ha Ha!! You know Gaeta's husband isn't her real husband so they can say 'I enjoy you' to her on a regular basis." He takes a pause and then continues "That's only a serial my dear. It's a fiction. Those activities are not real. And just look at you and your weight. How do I lift you if you are so heavy?"
"I know, you would say that. You never care. That's why I watch this serial. They show how other husbands behave using their wives and there is you should not remind me of my weight again and again. I'm trying my best. I stopped eating sweets now."
"Yes, I know for six days you follow those ideas and on the seventh day you relish." He starts laughing loudly.
"You can never understand my feelings. You're so rude and cool." She turns off the TV angrily and gets into the other room. The husband quietly sits down on the sofa with his laptop with a smile on his face.
From the above mentioned conversation it's possible to conclude how men and women from middle class families talk and discuss characters of daily soaps, how a conversation starts with and ends with, how fiction can affect people's life indirectly, how women interpret fictional things and conclude about something righteously. Some fictional things can easily raise women's expectations from their husbands.
Lifting in arms factor might be quite much one for family men but if tried hard, would be good for family and an inspiration for children.
If most men than women watch lifting in arms scene on TV attentively and when it persuades them to behave than to watch, the happiness in women's life would undoubtedly be doubled. And if women become happy by their husband's expressing love differently, many homes in India would certainly be flooded with great happiness.
Replacement factors:
Indian common masses are very emotional. They get attached with serial characters rapidly and become accustomed to begin to see the characters in daily soaps which they see on TV for a lengthy time. They get shocked when any major character is replaced like a main character or supporting actress or actor, mother in law, father in law, brother in law etc who play major roles in daily soaps. Sometimes it happens that despite replacement when viewers watch that serial, they keep remembering the old character in your mind and think that she or he's still acting. This happens with many people. Humans take time for any change to simply accept in general when an existing character is replaced with a fresh one. They make time to accept the brand new one. Somehow all these specific things are not considered by directors and producers who launch them before launching their family dramas on regional TV channels. Replacement of any favorite character upsets the viewers when they become accustomed to that particular character. Read this following assumptive example: A few gets married with the blessings of elders and starts staying together in a home. Only two of them and 2 years have passed. Husband and wife have quite got used to each others' presence. They shop, eat, drink, fight, share feelings and have fun together. One day each morning, the wife just leaves the house without informing her husband. Once the husband returns back from office, he finds another woman who claims to be his wife, tells him to forget the initial one and convinces him he won't have chance to meet the initial one. What'll happen in this instance? Natural reaction such situation would be going into shock, sadness, insecurity, depression and confusion. Any sudden change could be pleasant or unpleasant or both. Although some men wish to have such surprises some amount of time in their life but used to factor and emotions comes into play between. This is what exactly happens with viewers when replacement of a common actors is done all of an immediate by a team of TV serials which may be avoided if taken necessary steps for the sake of viewers as a result of whom they can show whatever content they would like to in order to entertain them.
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